We know that our students navigate challenges throughout the year.
However, behavior and experience show us that holiday breaks seem to be a more
intense time.
Holiday breaks can amplify situational protective and risk factors
present in our student’s lives. Risk factors are characteristics associated with a
higher likelihood of negative outcomes. Protective factors provide buffering. Protective factors are
associated with a reduced likelihood of negative outcomes or lower a risk factor’s
impact. Risk and protective factors come from public health.
The supports and consistency of school pause, and daily life sets
in during a time of heightened, festive attention. For our students, holiday
beaks may mean:
- More exposure to family dynamics (both positive and negative)
- Family dynamics may increase in intensity
- Parenting or visitation plans may be adjusted or changed
- Travel, hosting, or visiting bring different places and faces
- Schedule shifts that increase time with others or reduce time with others
- Concerns or adjustments related to finances and food
Balancing expectations and reality, and navigating the comparisons
among peers and friends
The time before holiday breaks is a time of preoccupation. Who can
know if joy or worry, or both, fuel student anticipation? For some families,
this is an exciting time that promises celebration. A time that some of our
students don’t want to end. However, for other students this is a time of
uncertainty and unmet expectations, a time where anticipation turns from
excitement into anxiety, and for a few anxiety shifts to despair. Even adults
may find themselves fluctuating between feeling excited, stressed, and anxious.
The vast difference between the adult and student experience,
however, is that adults are the decision-makers of the changes. Students are
along for the ride with little-to-no control in the frenzy of break. It is
understandable that our students who feel the least amount of control during
the days leading to break might begin to seek a sense of control through a
variety of behaviors.
As educators and trusted adults, we can use the time leading up to
holiday break as protective and reassuring. We can dedicate ourselves to
inclusion, working to keep our students with us, with the class, and within the
school. Keeping students close may help them feel secure in a time of magnified
expectation and anticipation.
Coping with anticipation and managing stress are lifelong skills.
As is the development of coping through anxiety and painful experiences. To be
resilient, to develop trust, and weather tough times happens with practice.
Holiday break is an opportunity for us to support students in developing and
coping with uncertainty and excitement, and all the feelings in-between.
This article was contributed by:
Mandy Paradise, M.Ed.
Project
AWARE Program Supervisor
Secondary
Education & K12 Supports
Office
of Superintendent of Public Instruction (OSPI)
